Since Uche discovered she was pregnant, she has slowed down her activities, career.
She
 once said in an interview - about three months ago - that her husband 
has been treating her like an egg and even insisted she stayed abroad 
till their baby is born. Well, she has confirmed her marriage crash to SDK a while ago.
 -Hello Uche, I  have a few quick questions for you.I heard your barely a year old marriage has crashed,is this true?
 Well that 
may be true but what isn't true is that it wasn't really marriage yet 
because it wasn't fully formalised, we were still in the process of 
formalising it when all hell broke loose, so I was merely Engaged to be 
married to Ato Ubby.    Continue:
-It was just an introduction?why didn’t you clear that impression all this while?
…I just felt
 there was no need to do so because the wedding plans was to follow 
shortly,unfortunately it didn’t because things didn’t work out the way 
it should.i walked into a no-win situation.
-What happened? 
 This is 
really a hard question to answer, but all I can say Is that barely one 
month into the Engagement and in the process of planning a formal 
wedding I realised I had made the greatest mistake of my life.The 
Foundation of the Union was based On lies and Deceit..shocking lies.we 
had been dating for a almost year and i thought i knew it all but 
nothing prepared me for what unfolded.
-Is he married already?
...No,he isn't married to anyone else 
-You got pregnant in the process?
On the verge
 of trying to salvage the situation I found out I was expecting a child.
 I kept quiet to the Rumours Making the rounds because I was left with 
the option of thinking for my child and trying to salvage a dead 
situation but now I have finally made up my mind to break off the 
Engagement and my Reasons are Irreconcilable...
Uche so you are saying you never got married and the engagement is off?
 I just want
 to be left alone to take care of my Child. Stella I wasn't married I 
was engaged to be married but as things stand now, the engagement is 
officially broken due to irreconcilable differences and since I am 
having my baby soon, my Doctors has advised me to rest as my health and 
that of my Baby is the most important thing right now..  
-So you are the one walking away and not him?you want to go into details?
..Yes i am 
the one walking out on the pack of lies,I am not going to pretend 
because i want to be married,i am not desperate and i would rather 
swallow my pride and accept i made a big mistake than forge ahead in 
lies.I am sorry i cannot go into details because i do not want to trade 
words or run my ex down because he is the father of the child i am 
carrying.
I am sorry if keeping quiet misled people into my status was already married.
The excitement of looking forward to birthing my child kinda numbs the shock and disappointment but i will be fine.
-So,after the introduction,the planned marriage was dead on arrival?
…exactly and all this while,we have been trying to settle the issues,that's probably how you got hear of it.
-Here's wishing you all the best Uche,we look forward to hearing the good news.God bless you.
..Thank you 
Stella for calling to confirm.thanks to everyone who has been 
understanding on this...for now,let me channel all my energy into 
positivity for my baby.
 
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